我們不是沒有時間，而是沒有好好經營自己生活的那份心...

因此總是在聽著別人敘述的故事，在羨慕，在崇拜著別人對生活的經典詮釋。

可沒有用心經營過生活的我們，依舊只是把這些經典的詮釋讀過，念過，唱過，驚嘆過...之后，放在了一旁。

然后它們還是它們，我們還是我們...

多年之后的某個仲夏...再一次翻看到這些美麗篇章時，發現...他們不再深奧，而是如此的貼切...這不正是我們每天生活經歷的記錄嗎？對，多年前我們是讀過了，但因為那時候還沒有體驗過用心經營生活，同樣是經典的話在那刻看來，離自己很遙遠，純粹只是些在紙上密密麻麻，整整齊齊排列著的文字而已。所以雖然華麗卻不能留下任何印象...

 

有些道理，有些真理不是原本就存在，只是我們在一邊生活一邊經營的過程中，點滴積累下來，記錄下來的。那些個道理才不會空，那寫道理是--生活寫實...

 

下面是在看sex and the city里 听到的一些我喜歡的獨白...從成熟女人的眼里看生活，細節都出來了，慢慢回味，妙不可言...

 

"Later that day I got to thinking about relationships. There are those that open you up to something new and exotic, those that are old and familiar, those that bring up lots of questions, those that bring you somewhere unexpected, those that bring you far from where you started, and those that bring you back. But the most exciting, challenging and significant relationship of all is the one you have with yourself. And if you can find someone to love the you you love, well, that's just fabulous."

"When you're young, your whole life is about the pursuit of fun. Then, you grow up and learn to be cautious. You could break a bone or a heart. You look before you leap and sometimes you don't leap at all because there's not always someone there to catch you. And in life, there's no safety net. When did it stop being fun and start being scary?"

"Maybe mistakes are what make our fate... without them what would shape our lives? Maybe if we had never veered off course we wouldn't fall in love, have babies, or be who we are. After all things change, so do cities, people come into your life and they go. But it's comforting to know that the ones you love are always in your heart... and if you're very lucky, a plane ride away"
"Maybe some women aren't meant to be tamed. Maybe they just need to run free til they find someone just as wild to run with them."

"You may have no idea what we're dealing with down there. Teeth placement, and jaw stress, and suction, and gag reflex, and all the while bobbing up and down, moaning and trying to breathe through our noses. Easy? Honey, they don't call it a job for nothin'."